Friday, February 4, 2011

1/4/11

How Can Foward Thinking help me make better decisions?


I believe the best decisions are madewhen you think about them for a peroid of time before you make them final. Prayer,Planning, and Meditation are the best ways possible to help make better decisions. If you meditate and look at your decisions every way possible i believe you can go wrong. If you weigh your pro's and con's of that major decisions then you can come out on top. I believe you only make a bad decision if you dont take your time about making that choice. Either way, with any decision you make there's a lesson to learn. If you think about those decisions beforeyou make them you can be victorious in that decision. If we focus on whats important to us in the long run than at that moment our decision will be made wisely. We make silly mistake by not paying attention or going through it too fast to where we miss the most important things. We all want to make decisions that will benefit us. God is so awesome because he can let us make the decision we think is right, and he will show us other wise. Better decisions comes with a thought process that is willing to consider every way possible. Making better decisions comes with being honest with yourself. If your able to be real with yourself then your able th make the best decisions for you.

2/4/11

When is Loyalty to myself more important than loyalty to a friend?


Loyalty in my opinion is being honest and staying true to yourself. Being loyal to a friend is being honest and keeping it real with that person no matter in happiness or sad. In order to be loyal to a friend you have to be loyal to yourself. Becoming loyal to yourself takes time. You have to be honest and most caring to yourself before you can anyone else. "Loyalty is the pledge of truth to oneself and others". (ADA VELEZ-BOARDLEY) That quote is saying in order to be honest and tru to someone else you have to come to terms with yourself first. I believe Loyalty strengthen the heart and scares the mind. It takes time to process loyalty because you have to be willing to be honest with yourself all the time. Honesty is hard, thats why we lie about things we dont even mean to. Sometimes It seems easier to be loyal to someone else than it is yourself. Your able to be there for someone else better than you are yourself. Sometimes its easier to be honest with someone esle than it is yourself because of how you handle it. Loyalty to myself is more important than a friend when Im in time of need. When I need someone to be there for me in situations, what better person than myself mentally and emotionally. If Im Not mentally stable then Im not able to handle the situation to the best of my ability. If i can be there 100% for someone else then i know i can be there 110% for myself.